Thursday, May 5, 2016

Once in a Lifetime Part 3

It was hard to say good-bye, as it always is. But good-bye it was, and on we drove back towards Oregon. We left West Virginia and crossed Ohio, then Indiana and Illinois and stopped at the eastern border of Iowa. We had planned on doing a little family research in Iowa and our first stop was Pioneer Cemetery in Scott County. My mother-in-law was a 'Brown' and her great grandfather and grandmother are buried here. Their names were Horace T Brown 1812-1854 and Alma Barber Brown 1816-1881.

Their daughter Angenette Brown, 1851-1867 is buried here also. She died at age 16.

There are a few other family members here also, and this is where Susan Alford Brown, (Alma's sister-in-law) was buried. 1830-1855

 Her little son George is buried beside her 1855-1856.

 It was a very pretty small cemetery among rolling farmland.
There was a stone wall around the cemetery and this cool old stone shed in one corner.
Seen from this photo of the wall, you can see the back of the shed was actually built into the wall.
Next we drove on to Des Moines, a large city. We were looking for a small cemetery in a suburb called Polk City. Our GPS took us out a gravel road that ended abruptly at the Des Moines River where a fisherman was trying his luck. So we backed up and tried again, this time with success. We were looking for the United Brethren Cemetery, which is in back of what is now a Methodist Church.

This is where ancestors of my father-in-law's mother are buried. We found the stone for the insurance man's great, great, great grandmother and grandfather and his great, great grandmother. Wow! Their last name was Fagan.

John Fagan (1806-1878) and Ann Gooden Fagan (1809-1875)

Their daughter Margaret Fagan Barrick is also buried here. (1839-1880)

This was a lovely spot, and wonderful to find these relations.
Next we drove to south Iowa and Ringgold County. This time we were looking for my side of the family. My great aunt Minnie used to come back here each year to visit her relatives. My grandfather was born here, and although they left the area when he was in high school there was much they talked about. We drove around to several little towns, all in the space of 20 miles or so, including Mount Ayr, Delphos, Malloy, Benton, and Diagonal. All very small towns and each unique in their own ways.
My grandfathers family lived in Benton, which is 3 miles from Mount Ayr, the county seat.


We found this little cemetery way out in the country after much difficulty (like our new car being covered in Iowa mud). Many of my great-grandmothers family are buried here. It was fenced but a good walk from the car. There were cows all around, curious and bellowing, and I thought perhaps one curious female was about to chase me back to the car.

The fence stopped them....
We then drove to yet another small cemetery in a place named Knowlton, which no longer exists. Again, fairly difficult to find. We stopped and asked the farmers...and then succeeded in tracking it down.
Centenary Cemetery, Knowlton
My great, great grandparents: Hannibal Jones (1832-1880) and Lorania Ely Jones (1833-1903).
Our biggest surprise was finding their oldest daughter Virginia (Jennie) Jones Asher (1852-1901) buried here. I had not previously been able to find her burial place.
And then, last but not least we drove to Western Iowa and Missouri Valley where both my ancestors and the insurance man's ancestors had farmed and lived.
In Harlan, Shelby County we found the burial place of the insurance man's great grandfather's brother Andrew Mager Brown (1854-1925) and his wife Rachel. His great grandfather had lived and farmed here also, but had eventually found his way west to Oregon.
This was a much larger cemetery, and we were only able to find the graves with the help of the men mowing and tending the sites. They gave us the phone number of the man who had a map of the cemetery and he was able to direct us to the right spot. We drove on south through Missouri Valley down to Harrison County and Cass Township. Here we were looking for Frazier Cemetery, the burial place of the insurance man's great, great, great grandfather Ammon Sherwood (1807-1893). We were running out of time and daylight that day. We discovered there were two cemeteries, Frazier and Old Frazier, each in a different little town. We only had time for one so we chose Old Frazier and found it was the wrong one. But at least we got to see the area where they farmed and lived.

One thing about doing family history research, is that it's striking that so many of our family lines came through Iowa. Both the insurance man and I had relatives that were poor farmers generally. Much the same in our backgrounds. We enjoyed looking around and discovering Iowa and appreciated the hard labor that must have gone into farming and feeding their families.

We headed west and drove through Nebraska. We had a terrific downpour one day, and because of that lost our way and went north out of our way about100 miles. But due to that we drove through the small town of Plainview, NE which happened to be where my father-in-law's grandfather immigrated to the United States to after leaving Denmark. It was a German community at that time, and again they were farmers there before leaving for Idaho. An unplanned but delightful mishap.

It took several more days of traveling through Wyoming, Utah and Idaho to reach Burns where we stopped for a quick visit with my in-laws before heading for home-sweet-home. As I titled these three was a once in a lifetime trip for us.



Thursday, April 28, 2016

Once In A Lifetime Part 2

Older Boys-Sam and Will Ages 16 and 15
Julie had a broken dishwasher, so they removed it. Now Sam and Will take turns doing evening dishes, and sometimes they do them together. They have fun while they work and everyone appreciates their efforts.

Samuel has been cheerfully doing dishes for a long time. When Will got bigger they both used to climb up on stools with dishtowels wrapped around their waists and learn to do dishes.
Sam has always liked babies, and doesn't mind helping out the little ones.
The oldest four boys all take piano lessons. While we were there, they were busy practicing for an upcoming Spring Piano Recital.
Sam and Will each played their own song, and then did a duet together which was a big hit with the audience.
I love it that these 'old' grandsons still like their Grammy, and don't mind spending some time with me. Sam went fishing, caught a trout and fixed it up for dinner for me one night. What a treat! Will and I have lots to talk about, including good books we've been reading.
I think William beat us all bowling, as he is really competitive and a good bowler.
These two guys are close in age, and do most things together, including eating like teen-age boys do!
While us girls were having fun, Papa and Peter were busy tearing out the bathtub, flooring and some of the wall in the bathroom. I didn't get a photo of the boys, but they spent several days working hard alongside the men and getting things done. 
Benjamin- Age 13
 Benjamin's birthday is 2 days after Millie's, on April 10th. Due to the stomach flu making the rounds through the family, Ben's birthday was split up into three parts. He weathered this with good humor. Every year he asks for banana pudding for his birthday dessert, and this year was no exception. And no, he didn't get to eat that whole thing by himself. Although, I think he could have!
We celebrated Ben's 13th by taking the older kids and going bowling. We all had a great time, especially Ben.
Ben likes to eat, and I think he may be the budding chef in the family.
Calvin- Age 11

Calvin had a good time bowling, and showed off some skills.
We all enjoyed Fat Pattie's and the French fries were as good as the burgers.
On our way on one of our many trips....
Calvin gets along just as well with Ben the next older, and Millie the next younger.
Elijah- Age 5

We were only going to take the older children bowling, but Elijah wanted to go so bad that we took him too. He really enjoyed it, and his ball was nearly as big as he is.
This is Elijah all dressed up for church. His bow tie was one my brother wore at his age, and I passed it on to Julie. It has gone down the ranks, and is perfect for Elijah now. Next will be baby James.
Elijah has many big brothers to look after him, help him and model good behavior for him.
He had a mishap in the water swimming, and is taking time to catch his breath and warm up.
Jameson- Age 1
I think Julie is really enjoying this sweet little guy and still having a baby in the house.

 Those curls in back are so cute! Everyone loves playing with and holding James.
and he gives out kisses too!
He's usually on the lookout for someone to pick him up for a while.
When Millie went up to the attic, James thought he'd like to try that too.  
Grammy got in her time too, although he's not much of a snuggler usually.
And once in a while, Papa and Grammy had to take a little break and rest : )
The whole bowling teams...and we all had such a wonderful visit!
Tomorrow we'll conclude this with a bit of our trip home and some family history investigating we did on our way.